The Path to Hospice

Written by Ethan Engel on . Posted in Ethan's Garden

To cultivate an awareness of all life as suffering…

...it’s easier for some than others. Certainly the thought has left large numbers of its thinkers cold, including me. Just flirting with the idea can trigger an irrational fear of falling into an unreachable depression…

And perhaps that’s just it, Buddhism makes no attempt to charm, yet Buddhism is as charming as hospice. And for those who know, it doesn’t get any more charming than hospice. It’s one of the only places left where... Read more...

Love is Watching Someone Die

Written by Erinn Woodside on . Posted in Ethan's Garden

Erinn Woodside's starkly beautiful post was found on Sarah Bender's blog, Occasional WordsIt was originally posted on Erinn's own blog, Elevating the Ordinary, on August 6, 2011.

“Love is watching someone die.
So who’s going to watch you die?”
— “What Sarah Said” by Death Cab for Cutie

As I read through some of the media buzz about our 31 fallen in Afghanistan this morning I felt compelled to put down some thoughts that have been swirling around in my head for the past several... Read more...

Siddartha - Part 2

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Siddartha - Part 2


Siddartha grew up in ignorance of anything but loveliness. But at age twenty-nine, married for thirteen happy years and with a new firstborn son, destiny called a meeting. On a ceremonial procession through the capital, Siddharta saw the strangest thing in his whole life: a couple of gawking old men who had flouted authority and returned to the parade route after being policed away. Filled with an urgent curiosity about these bizarre individuals, Siddharta jumped off his parade chariot to chase... Read more...

Siddhartha - Part 1

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Siddartha was born to a royal family in a beautiful kingdom in the Himalayan foothills. A few years after Siddartha’s birth, a famous shaman visited his father’s court and delivered a prophecy regarding the young boy’s future. This shaman, Asita, declared that Siddartha would become either a powerful king, or a spiritual master who would be a great light to humanity. 

Disturbed by the prophecy and desperate for his son to become a successor to his lands, the father vowed to shield the... Read more...

Dealing with Dissonance

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Dealing with Dissonance

In 1956 Leon Festinger introduced a groundbreaking concept into western psychology: the theory of cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is seen to appear when a person holds two conflicting thoughts.

It's a simple idea: if we are presented with evidence that a belief or assumption is wrong, then we're holding two beliefs that aren't psychologically consistent. The result is a drive state, similar to hunger or thirst. Most subjects experience this drive state as being very unpleasant,... Read more...

Keeping it Simple

Written by Ethan Engel on . Posted in Ethan's Garden

Ending suffering, even visualizing existence post-suffering, requires some knowledge of how to end suffering. 

Buddhism is this how to. 
It is a collection of skills and strategies to rehabilitate an attitude at war with itself. 

At first this collection of strategies appears large, scattered and daunting. 
This is not the case. 

The Buddha’s teachings are based on an awareness that we are constantly making arbitrary decisions about reality.
Simply experiencing the Buddha's ideas, in... Read more...

Siberian Rhododendrons

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Siberian Rhododendrons

Mindful presence in the moment,
opens the door to every possibility,
transforms the way we work, worship, and love.

This power that converts anger, hatred, and jealousy
into courage, passion and benevolence,
exists
for anyone to use.

Activated by taking our time,
a return to single-minded awareness of our breathing;
this is the central and irrefutable fact of the Buddhist tradition.

When we refuse to let circumstances overwhelm,
when we take our time,
we can better acknowledge our feelings and... Read more...

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